Thoughtful and Unique Gift Ideas for the Hostess In Your Life
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For the hosts in our lives who love to entertain, their fabulous meal prepping, party planning, and cozy home curating seems like it comes second nature. But we all know the hard work that goes into it—and they deserve to be appreciated for it! Their generosity and hospitality doesn’t go unnoticed. From their meticulously crafted menus to knowing exactly how to decorate their homes for the holidays, our hosts put so much thought into their get-togethers. So, for all they do for us, it’s the perfect time to give them a heartfelt “thank you” with a thoughtful hostess gift.
Keep it simple and refined with a luxe olive oil set; make their day with a customized serving platter; or show off their style with a cute new apron they can cook in. You know your host best, so tap into their serving style and surprise them with something that feels like them! Though the regular bottle of wine or bouquet of flowers is a sweet offering, it’s not your only option. Go the extra mile for their next gathering or big holiday bash and you’ll make your host feel so special with these unique hostess gift ideas.
Personalized Hosting Accessories
Custom tea towels, engraved cutting boards, personalized cocktail napkins—the list of customized hosting accessories is endless! Think of their favorite part about hosting, or something they might need more of: Are they the charcuterie perfectionist? Do they tailor the meal around their cocktail or wine list? Are they in need of a new cutting knife or serving utensils? From there, you can choose the piece that they’d love most and personalize it however you see fit. You can add their initials, a sweet message or inside joke, or a date to commemorate a special occasion. They’ll love that you went the extra mile.
Helpful Kitchen Upgrades
A home chef will never be disappointed with some high-quality kitchen upgrades. Whether it’s as generous as a new KitchenAid stand mixer or as thoughtful as a new set of steak knives you know they’ve been wanting, gifts like these are useful, practical, and considerate. And they’ll appreciate that you pay attention to the small things!
A Luxe Sweet Treat
The key here is to gift them something they’ll love but would never buy themselves. And for many, maybe that means a luxury box of chocolates, truffles, or macarons. It looks and feels far more chic than the grocery store cookies that anyone can grab. Plus, many of these sweets come prepackaged in gorgeously-wrapped gift boxes, which lends an extra-special touch.
Chic Hosting Accessories
The most-loved gifts are usually ones that are practical and beautiful. Put a unique twist on usual hosting gifts, like a candle or linen cocktail napkins, by giving them unique picks instead of the ones you can find in just about any department store. The effort is noticeable, and the gift will feel much more bespoke when you pick an item you know will complement their style.
Upscale Cooking Essentials
Un-basic their basics and jazz up your host’s counter with something special. This olive oil and fuyu persimmon vinegar set from Flamingo Estate is produced on a sustainable, organic farm that utilizes practices that can help reverse climate change and improve soil health. And if your host appreciates life’s eccentricities, they’re going to love these viral salt and pepper grinders from Dusen and Dusen.
Festive Serveware
There are few things more satisfying than serving fresh olives and cheeses on top of a new serving tray. Especially during this busy time of year, a serving dish or a festive set of plates can be so useful (not to mention beautiful!). Just think of all the charcuterie boards that will be styled on these trays for years to come.
Pretty Board Games
Here at DrewandJonathan.com, we love a little friendly competition. And board games and puzzles are some of our very favorite group activities (as long as Jonathan is winning…) Consider modernizing their game collection with a new rendition of a classic or this Piecework puzzle that’s pretty enough to frame. All of these games are also beautiful enough to put on display!
Bar Cart Accessories
The bar cart—a place for flavor and flare, and all the cutest accessories that you can never have too much of. Whether your host is a low- or no-ABV connoisseur or a sommelier who could explain the difference in body and legs in every wine from Chablis to Barolo, the bar cart accessory possibilities are endless! These cocktail bombs from Sur La Table are so cool—just drop one in a glass, fill it with your sparkling beverage of choice (plus 2 oz. of liquor if you’ll be drinking alcohol), and voilà! You have yourself a fun twist on a traditional bevvy. There are six in a box: Cosmo, bellini, margarita, lavender lush, prosecco rose, and a hangover drink bomb.
A Beautiful New Apron
Have your hostess cooking in style this holiday with an apron that’ll have every guest saying, “Yes, chef!” Take your pick from a quirky (and downright adorable) pink apron adorned with pups wearing desserts and fruits, a chic and festive gingerbread village embroidered apron, or a classic red striped apron perfect for the holidays. Every home chef and baker loves a new apron to add to their collection, especially when it’s hand-picked from a loved one.
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Bree Pulver O'Hagan
Bree is the Senior Digital Editor at DrewandJonathan.com. In the past, she’s worked for publications focused on home improvement and sustainable living. Bree’s Pinterest board is filled with cozy textures; vintage patterns; sculptural furniture; and moody, warm-toned colors. She has a degree concentrated in the intersection of writing and architecture, which influences her passion for exploring creative solutions to unusual home layouts and stylish renter-friendly decor. She’s a self-proclaimed pro at finding the best antique furniture in the most unlikely of places (but her cat Blue can certainly back these claims).
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